May 21, 2023
Find the pain point
What people say and what they really mean or are feeling are very different.
We are very good at distracting ourselves and numbing our feelings.
But of course we are humans and despite all of our amazing complexities we are actually quite simple and beautiful beings. We all carry certain pain points but we can’t all figure out the cure.
So we say some things and do other things with some sort of subconscious hope that we will be cured. We are not because we have not found the pain point.
So when you talk, listen. When you take action, watch and reflect.
Is that the real you or is that just you avoiding the real pain point.